160 This or That Questions for Couples to Spark Fun

Every relationship has its unique rhythm, and what better way to sync up than with a game that’s as enlightening as it is entertaining? Dive into our specially curated list of this or that questions for couples.

These prompts aren’t just about choices—they’re gateways to stories, secrets, and surprises that might otherwise go untold. Perfect for long drives, cozy evenings, or while cooking dinner together, these questions promise to add a spark of joy and a deeper understanding between you and your partner.

Funny This or That Questions for Couples

1. Netflix marathon or YouTube binge?
2. Dress up for a fancy dinner or stay in pajamas all day?
3. Fight one horse-sized duck or one hundred duck-sized horses?
4. Be able to speak all languages or be able to talk to animals?
5. Go about your day with a clown nose or clown shoes?
6. Forget your partner’s birthday or accidentally send them a silly meme?
7. Always have to sing instead of speaking or dance everywhere you go?
8. Have a rewind button in your life or a pause button?
9. Live without music or live without television?
10. Be the star of a bad reality show or have a bit part in an award-winning movie?
11. Wear a snowsuit in the desert or a swimsuit in Antarctica?
12. Always have to shout when you speak or always whisper?
13. Accidentally laugh loudly at a funeral or sob at a wedding?
14. Find a rat in your kitchen or a spider in your bed?
15. Be permanently on stilts or permanently on roller skates?
16. Have bad hair on a first date or bad breath at your wedding?
17. Be able to stop time or fly?
18. Have your life narrated publicly by a comedian or a mysterious figure?
19. Win a pie-eating contest or a wheelbarrow race?
20. Have hiccups for the rest of your life or always feel like you’re about to sneeze?

Romantic This or That Questions for Couples

1. Candlelit dinner at home or sunset dinner on the beach?
2. Handwritten love letter or surprise romantic getaway?
3. Weekend in Paris or a week in Bali?
4. Slow dance under the stars or fast dance at a club?
5. Share an ice cream sundae or a piece of cake?
6. Stroll through a city or a walk in the countryside?
7. Watch a romantic comedy or a classic love story?
8. Cook a fancy meal together or order in from a fancy restaurant?
9. Celebrate your anniversary with a big party or a quiet evening?
10. Give each other massages or take a bubble bath together?
11. Breakfast in bed or a late-night snack under the moonlight?
12. Watch the sunrise or the sunset together?
13. Plan every detail of a date or be spontaneous?
14. Stay at a luxury hotel or camp under the stars?
15. Kiss under a fireworks display or in the pouring rain?
16. Adopt a pet together or plant a garden together?
17. Spend the day at an amusement park or a museum?
18. Have a movie marathon or read books side by side?
19. Go wine tasting or brewery hopping?
20. Spend a snowy day inside or go out and build a snowman?

Dirty This or That Questions for Couples

1. Whipped cream or chocolate syrup?
2. Lights on or lights off?
3. Romantic slow music or upbeat sexy tunes?
4. Bedroom or kitchen?
5. Leather or lace?
6. Blindfolded or handcuffed?
7. Quiet and gentle or loud and rough?
8. Long and slow or quick and intense?
9. Sexting or dirty talking over the phone?
10. Watch something naughty together or read an erotic story aloud?
11. Body oil or flavored lotion?
12. Morning fun or nighttime play?
13. Shower together or bubble bath together?
14. Role-playing or straightforward?
15. Lingerie or completely bare?
16. Be dominant or submissive?
17. Play with toys or go all natural?
18. Outdoor adventure or keeping it indoors?
19. Quick tease or long buildup?
20. Foreplay focused or straight to the main event?

Deep This or That Questions for Couples

1. Plan every detail of your life or go with the flow?
2. Know all the secrets of the universe or know every detail of your partner’s past?
3. Have a life full of passion or a life full of stability?
4. Spend your old age surrounded by family or traveling the world?
5. Have eternal love or a lifetime of freedom?
6. Change something in your past or have a glimpse into your future?
7. Find true love or win $10 million?
8. Be remembered for your kindness or your accomplishments?
9. Solve world hunger or stop all wars?
10. Live a short, exciting life or a long, dull one?
11. Always know when someone is lying or always get away with lying?
12. Be able to read minds or perfectly predict the future?
13. Have a partner who’s overly emotional or overly logical?
14. Spend your life doing what you love poorly or doing what you dislike but excellently?
15. Save the life of a starving child or have an actual, functioning lightsaber?
16. Have a rewind button on your life or a pause button?
17. Lose all of your old memories or never be able to make new ones?
18. Experience the world beginning or see how it ends?
19. Live without music or live without television?
20. Be feared by all or loved by all, but misunderstood?

Spicy This or That Questions for Couples

1. Talk dirty in bed or keep it silent?
2. Quickie in the morning or a long session at night?
3. Make love with the lights on or in the dark?
4. Be naughty at home or get adventurous outdoors?
5. Try out new kinky ideas or stick to what you know works?
6. Wear provocative lingerie or go completely nude?
7. Have a romantic encounter in a luxury hotel or a secluded cabin?
8. Use toys to spice things up or rely on just each other?
9. Explore tantric sex or keep things fast and furious?
10. Have your partner be teasingly slow or passionately aggressive?
11. Shower together to start or end the day?
12. Engage in role-playing or have straightforward passionate encounters?
13. Introduce another couple into your games or keep it exclusive?
14. Experiment with edible body paint or traditional massage oils?
15. Read erotica together or watch something risqué?
16. Have a sensual dance session or a steamy yoga workout?
17. Use handcuffs or silk ties?
18. Play a game of strip poker or truth or dare?
19. Engage in public displays of affection or keep the heat indoors?
20. Send flirty texts all day or save all the talk for bedtime?

Interesting This or That Questions for Couples

1. Travel back in time to meet your ancestors or jump ahead to meet your descendants?
2. Spend a year living on a boat or in an RV?
3. Learn every language fluently or master every musical instrument?
4. Have a personal chef or a personal chauffeur?
5. Own a cabin in the woods or a beach house?
6. Win the lottery or find your absolute dream job?
7. Have more time or more money?
8. Go on a space travel or deep-sea exploration?
9. Spend a day without electronics or a day without speaking?
10. Live in a place with a perfect climate but no seasons or experience all four seasons with extreme weather?
11. Have the ability to fly or become invisible at will?
12. Be famous in your lifetime or go down in history books?
13. Attend the Olympic Games or the FIFA World Cup?
14. Have a pause button on your life or a rewind button?
15. Adopt a pet or plant a garden?
16. Spend a month without your car or the internet?
17. Read minds for a day or predict the future for a day?
18. Spend a day with your favorite celebrity or your childhood hero?
19. Watch only dramas or only comedies for the rest of your life?
20. Live without music or live without movies?

Flirty This or That Questions for Couples

Intimate This or That Questions for Couples

1. Share your deepest fears or your greatest dreams?
2. Be comforted with words or with hugs?
3. Discuss your past or plan your future together?
4. Reveal a hidden talent or a hidden desire?
5. Be given constant reassurance or space for independence?
6. Always know where each other is or maintain an element of mystery?
7. Always sleep cuddled up or have separate sides of the bed?
8. Share every small detail of your day or keep some stories to yourself?
9. Regularly check each other’s phones or never touch each other’s phones?
10. Have a night of deep conversation or a night of passionate intimacy?
11. Be best friends or passionate lovers if you had to choose?
12. Know all of your partner’s secrets or be surprised by their past?
13. Have your partner understand your thoughts or your emotions better?
14. Face challenges together or let each other tackle them individually?
15. Express love through gifts or through acts of service?
16. Make important decisions together or trust one to lead on decisions?
17. Always say “I love you” before sleeping or start the day with it?
18. Have a partner who is a planner or one who is spontaneous?
19. Spend a lazy Sunday indoors together or go out for an adventure?
20. Share your most embarrassing moment or your proudest moment?